It lies in your heart and mind

With the wake of every New Year, people usually come up with resolutions; like the new things they want to employ or the changes they want to see in their lives and other things they want to let go.

Right after some time the funny things they do with their resolutions is very interesting to note down. By now some have even forgotten or intentionally let go of theirs. But this post is not about Resolutions

that people make in the starting of the year, rather am looking at the heart making such resolutions.

Though this is very bad but I also consider it funny that most people making resolution are still holding so many issues in there their hearts; grudges, pains, wickedness, jealousy, strife, just name them, without even planning or trying to let go.

 I wonder how a black bulb will give a bright light. … Charlesfiness

Your heart is covered with darkness and you want a bright year.

We wanted 2014 to go with all our problems, but we never planned to let go of the negative things that we are holding on in our hearts, lol. Please be wise, those things on your mind are capable of keeping your troubles with you and even adding more to them.

Exactly my point

To me, life has two sides: the bright side and the dark side. When you are holding on to negative or dark issues, it means you are in the dark side of life. The truth of the matter is that you will continue to stumble on darkness and the likes as you go [proverbs 4v19], so please change and let go.

Send the negative things in your heart away and you will see yourself on the bright side of life. No matter what it is, maybe people have wronged you a lot, those you trusted have disappointed you a lot or maybe it is your own wrongdoings or the crime you have committed and can’t take your mind off it. For you to be free you just have to let go.

The greatest deliverance one can get is self-deliverance.                                                                                                                                                                … Charlesfiness

you have to reject them first

If you have not freed your mind, all your prayers and the ones offered on your behalf will work only but for a while before the darkness will come hunting you again. I will like to let you know that your strength can not help overcome your limitations and inadequacies but the Grace of God does that perfectly. At that point where you can’t push further, just call on God and consider it done.

“My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness” (2 Corinthians 12v9)

Some people have constantly kept themselves where they are today because someone or series of people have broken their hearts a long time ago. These days if I hear “someone broke my heart” I consider it too childish because in this age we have outgrown heartbreak. I mean with lots of materials we have today inform of books and the media etc. which help us combat the increasing struggles of a relationship, someone will still open his or her mouth to say “after all the love and care I showed her, yet she left me for another”.

Some people have even sworn never to love again; some will tell you that they don’t need any man or woman in their life. That’s a blatant lie and you know it, in fact, you are being so hard on yourself. The real truth is that you have been having hard luck or have seen people on the same train with you and it seems there is nothing like genuine love. Why not focus on being real yourself. You know what I mean; do you have to fake your life in order to attract your dream person? I don’t want to go into details on that because you understand. Again; I realized that the problem with some people is that they are having Atelophobia, you don’t have to see yourself as not being good enough, there must be something special about you that you might not have recognized or that you have ignored. If you doubt yourself contact me and I will give you plenty of reasons why I believe in you.

I strongly believe in you

True love never lies, never cheats, does not disguise itself, is never selfish, will never hurt you intentionally; only fake people using it do. … Charlesfiness

   

You might refuse to accept this truth but I know you still cry or at least feel so bad when you remember your last experience. To this effect, people have resorted to not sharing their stories as it is like digging up the dead from the grave to them. But I believe sharing your story to reliable persons have a way of lifting the burden off your chest. Compounding issues in your mind only lead to more issues. I have met people that suffered physical maltreatment and assaults for a long time in hands of people simply because they refused to confide in people. Life can be so short and so long at the same time so you need to find a solution to your problems instead of concealing them in your heart. I agree that trustworthy people are hard to find, but it becomes easier when you are trustworthy yourself.

He is always there when you call on him

I have not seen any issue that LOVE and CARE cannot heal. This love is talking about can only be given by our Lord Jesus Christ. You will not understand until you come close to him. When you do so, his joy will become your strength. 

 God has a way of reshaping your mind and set it in the right direction so that you don’t see things the way you see them before.

And be not conformed to this world: but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God. [Romans 12:2]

He will give you joy that knows no bounds because the bible says that “a merry heart is like a medicine while a broken spirit dries the bone [Proverbs 17:22].

If someone has wronged you in the past, you can let it go just for your own good. I myself have tasted lots of unfaithfulnesses but with the help of God I leave whatever it is at the point where it happened and go my way. People have owed me and refused to pay, cheated, mocked and taken me for granted but I refused to get worried over the things of this life. Only making heaven and pleasing God daily can give me concern.

When you hold on to the bad past of your life; even the good people and good things won’t be able to find their way into your heart. … Charlesfiness

People will never be the way you expect them to be, stop expecting too much from them. We were all born with limitations. No man is perfect. To that, I defined the term “human” as “imperfect”. In other words, if people have not been too good to you maybe you are the one with the problem. Don’t be too principled, loosen up a little bit.

It's ok to be imperfect, it makes us who we are

If you can allow someone to change your happy mood to a bad one that means anyone can alter your destiny negatively. Ask God to give you the grace to move to the next step. Be wise; life is too short so move to the bright side of it. The change you need lies in your heart and mind.